5 things Men Don’t Like in a Girl

1. Arrogance

Yes, it’s important to be confident, but sometimes we can overstep the mark and become arrogant.

And nobody finds arrogance attractive.

There’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance so you need to make sure you know where that line is.

When someone is arrogant, they can come across as selfish, narcissistic, and self-absorbed.

This is not the type of woman that men want to be around.

Why?

Because they won’t feel cared for and they won’t feel like they can trust you.

What will this lead to?

Well, for one thing, they won’t want to introduce you to their friends or family. They don’t want to bring toxic energy into their life!

Remember, one of the great qualities of a feminine lady is that she is empathic and caring. Make sure you don’t lose that in your quest to be confident.

Ultimately, a man wants to date a woman that is laid-back, confident, open-to-try new things, and fun, but someone who is arrogant doesn’t tend to have those qualities.

If you’ve told by other people that you appear arrogant, then you need to work out why that is.

Even if it’s not the case, it might be that you just need to change some small things about your facial expressions.

The more you become aware of how others perceive you, the better you can get at understanding what works and what doesn’t.

2. Bitchy-type qualities

If you’re acting like a bitch and crossing the line when it comes to communicating with your man, then that needs to stop.

Nobody likes a bitch, particularly one that is just outright nasty.

Remember, men want a woman they can show-off to their friends, and a bitch is someone they’ll be hesitant to parade around as their girlfriend.

He’ll want to be confident that he can get along with you rather than fight with you.

If you’re always bitching about other people, then it’s fine to a certain extent, but be careful about doing it too much.

He may start to worry that you’re a fully-fledged bitch that won’t stop bagging him behind his back when you get a chance.

So observe how you talk with your man and try to put a stop to making too many nasty comments about other people.

Focus on being positive and nice about others. Try to not judge. It’ll make him feel way more comfortable and most importantly, he’ll be more attracted to you.

In the end, no one in their right mind wants to date a nasty bitch, so make sure you’re not one.

3. Too needy

It’s okay to want attention from your man, but don’t take it too far by wanting to know where he is 24/7.

Being too needy can also mean being too controlling.

Ask anyone who has been in a successful relationship and they’ll say that it’s incredibly important for both people to have their own lives.

If you’re relying on him for your happiness, then that’s a position that he doesn’t want to be in, and it’s certainly one that you don’t want to be in.

It can put too much pressure on him and he’ll feel like he hasn’t got much freedom.

This is one of the main reasons some guys act distant out of nowhere.

So make sure you have your own life and your own personal goals. Don’t seek his attention all the time. Don’t expect a text message from him every second hour.

Strive to give him some freedom to live his own life and for you to live yours. It will make you more attractive and it will put less pressure on him.

4. Lack of ambition

Ever been out with a man who lacks ambition?

He seems lazy like he doesn’t care about anything and has nothing going on with his life?

How frustrating is it?

Well, it’s the same thing for men.

The fact of the matter is this:

A person with drive and purpose in life is attractive.

Look, you don’t have to be super-ambitious, but at least be passionate about something.

It’s okay to have a dead-end job, but as long as you have something you’re interested in. That’s the main thing. He’ll be attracted to your passion when you talk about it. He also won’t find you boring.

What’s more, it’s really important in a relationship for both partners to grow.

The most successful relationships are ones where both individuals motivate each other to improve themselves.

Life is about growth. So strive to improve yourself in some ways and it’ll make you much more attractive to your target man.

5. Being dishonest

If you’re tempted to lie to make yourself seem more attractive, don’t.

Research has suggested that dishonesty is a major turn-off for both men and women.

We like being around someone who accepts themselves for who they are and doesn’t try to be someone they’re not.

If you’re dishonest and you get pulled up on your lies, then how can he trust you?

In fact, trust is one of the most important qualities of any relationship, so already, you’re starting off your relationships on the bad foot by being dishonest.